Fall is here

Sorry for the long wait between post. Sometimes life has a funny way of getting in the way. Well here is the reason for the post this time… that’s right, you guessed it, a female. I will give you a brief recap of my Summer to catch everyone up to speed. Summer was great. Met some new cool people. Enjoyed some good times. Now here comes the Fall. The weather is changing with hurricane rains and cloudy days, but life is still very enjoyable. Now that you are caught up, here we go. So in the last few months my current Ex has been continuously keeping touch with me. Now, I say she has been keeping in touch with me because I never, NEVER initiate a conversation at all being that she is ENGAGED and was pregnant. For some strange reason she continues to, in my eyes, disrespect her current situation by reaching BACK, not out, but BACK to me. Of this I am certain of, her fiance does not know about this communication between us. She would text with simple conversation then out of left field comes “I will never text you again”. I have showed my coworkers over and over the texts and conversations, they would laugh and say “She said that last month right”. Even my brothers and LBs laugh it off. I wish I could attach the conversations on this blog and let you all be the judge. Now here is the event that took place last week. During the Labor Day weekend I worked all weekend. No holiday for me. So my grandmother calls me and tells me “you know I had a visitor last night?” In my mind I am thinking that one of my cousins or my uncle has stopped by the house. I proceed to ask her “Who was it, did Kira (my niece) stay the night this time?” She says “No, Renee and her friend came by and spent the night here last night.” I wanted to go bizerk on the phone. Now if you know my grandmother, she’s very naive to the fact that once I break up with someone I rarely have contact with them again. It is only 3 of my Exs that I keep in touch with. So she tells me the story of how Renee tells her that she was having a family reunion in South Carolina and was going to stop by and see her. Number 1. Why are you still communicating with my grandmother? My brother says its in hopes to get back together. In the words of my kids “THATS DEAD.” So after telling my grandmother that she would be there at 7:30pm to see her, she does not arrive to well after 9:30pm. Another thing I found disrespectful, having my grandmother wait up that late for someone who I do not even care for. Now let me address one word in my grandmother’s quote that would have had me call Renee and verbally abused her… “FRIEND”. If she had the audacity to bring her fiance into my grandmother’s house I would have been obliged to tell him the fact that after weeks of me moving to Maryland I fucked his fiancee in my brother’s house on a bed full of dirty clothes with her pants not fully off her ass. I do not take kindly to disrespect. So when my grandmother told me it was a female friend, I thoughtfully digress. Now what is not clear to me is the reasoning behind it all. Allegedly Renee had plans on staying with my best friend’s ex who she is currently still friends with (I dont have a CLUE why they’re still friend, we both broke up with our Exs during the same month, cool huh) but “she did not pick up her phone”.  Now my grandmother being the great woman she is offers both of them a place to stay for the evening. Now I do fault my grandmother to a certain point. My grandmother has knowledge of some new woman that I am currently dealing with so she clearly knows that there will never be anything close to Renee coming back into my life. Again, I think it was more of her good nature than anything else. My main anger all falls on Renee. I would never call, text, tweet, BBM, or even THINK about visiting her mother let alone SPEND THE NIGHT AT HER HOUSE. (side note, Renee lives here in Maryland as well 25 minutes away to be exact) Now I have yet to speak to Renee about this cardinal transgression she has placed on her engagement, but I clearly will at some point address it accordingly. When the question was brought to her “Why you stayed at that man’s house” she nonchalantly said “it wasn’t a big deal”. Then here is the follow up question to that one “Did your fiancee know?” Of course the answer was “NO”. Sounds like a big deal to me doesn’t it? Her carelessness towards that engagement and blatant disrespect to the fact that we are no longer a couple or anything significant to each other bathers and puzzles me. She needs to get a clue. My brother says “she wants to be out of the engagement and wants you back”. Honestly, I could careless. That train has long gone. All I know, is this act was an act of disrespect and repercussions with be thoughtfully and carefully extracted upon all parties involved.